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Writing a Wedding Toast | How to

Posted on : 30-01-2010 | By : admin | In : Toasts


1. Consider to whom you are toasting.

You can toast to whomever you want, of course, but if the wedding is formal or traditional, there might be some conventions you’re not aware of. Ask around. Here are some guidelines:

* best man toasts to the bride
* maid/matron of honor toasts to the groom
* father of the bride toasts to the couple
* bride and groom toast to their parents and the guests

2. Clarify your relationship to the couple.

Some people at the wedding might not know who you are, so making this clear at the beginning will avoid any confusion.

3. Give thanks.

Show gratitude to whoever is hosting the wedding, whether it’s the parents of the bride or the couple themselves. E.g. “Thank you for welcoming us to this happy occasion, and sharing your joy with us today.”

4. Share an anecdote.

Stories of how various parties met are always popular, whether you talk about how the bride and groom met or your first time meeting either of them. Here are some additional ideas:

* The first time the bride or groom told you about meeting their partner.
* The first time you realized these people were an important part of your life.
* A time you got through something together, whether challenging or fun.
* The story you are looking forward to telling their kids one day.
* The way you have seen the bride or groom change for the better since they met.
* When you’re 90 and looking back, what would you say of your friendship?
* Tell a story of some specific detail or action that exemplifies why this person is special in this world, and to you in particular.
* If you were given three wishes for the couple, what would they be? Be careful with the use of clichés here. Don’t use wishes you’ve heard before.
* Tell about the time your friend saw you through an embarrassing moment. (Careful. Consider the audience).
* If it’s a second marriage and there are children involved, consider a toast referencing the newly created family.

5. Offer a compliment.

Say something nice about the person (or couple) you are toasting to. Although your intentions might be good, don’t go on and on about how great a person is; instead, choose a few appreciate adjectives that go a long way (e.g. “he’s generous, intelligent, and kind”).

6. End the toast on a positive note.

Offer a wish, a traditional toast, or a blessing. Here are some ideas:

* Here’s to the groom, a man who keeps his head though he loses his heart.
* May she share everything with her husband, including the housework.
* My greatest wish for the two of you is that through the years your love for each other will so deepen and grow, that years from now you will look back on this day, your wedding day, as the day you loved each other the least.
* May ‘for better or worse’ be far better than worse.
* Here’s to the groom with bride so fair, And here’s to the bride with groom so rare!
* May I see you grey, and combing your grandchildren’s hair.
* May you live each day like your last, and live each night like your first.
* May you see each other through many dark days, and make all the rest a little brighter.
* To keep your marriage brimming, with love in the wedding cup, whenever you’re wrong, admit it; whenever you’re right, shut up.
* I would like to make a toast to lying, stealing, cheating and drinking. If you’re going to lie, lie for a friend. If you’re going to steal, steal a heart. If your going to cheat, cheat death. And if you’re going to drink, drink with me.

7. Indicate the ending of the toast.

Finish off with a phrase that’s to be repeated by the guests. For example: “Let us now toast the happiness of Jill and Jack. To Jill and Jack!”

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Ideas for Father of The Bride Speeches

Posted on : 23-10-2009 | By : admin | In : Father Speech


When you start thinking about the father of the bride speech, you should consider that maybe the bride and groom will prepare their own wedding speeches, and you will want to consider what they will say. For me and my son-in-law was a good idea to write our speeches separately, because we didn’t want to spoil the surprise. I also think it’s a good idea to have a chat with both the bride and groom, so you can figure out the direction of their speeches. They may give the speech together, or have individual speeches, but in any case, is better to have an idea about their direction.

How to Decide Who Says What

No matter what kind of speech we’re talking about, whether the father of the bride wedding speech or the bride and groom wedding speech, it will help you to get the story straight and make sure that no speech is repeating the other. This is why discussing father wedding speech ideas with your daughter and son-in-law is a very good idea. Of course not all brides and grooms will do separate speeches. Probably only one of them will do the speech, or maybe they would want to address the speech together. My son-in-low gave the groom wedding speech in both of his and my daughter’s name, so they had to prepare it together. If the wedded pair haven’t decided yet, then my recommendation is that they have a good honest discussion before moving to the next steps.

Putting Together the Perfect Speech

Once everybody has decided, it’s a good idea to have a talk with the bride and the groom. Chances are they will both have a few of the same ideas, such as telling stories of how and where they met and things they’ve made together as a couple.

As the father of the bride, you already have a lot of responsibility on your plate: not just on the wedding day itself, but in the days and weeks that lead up to the event. And when you’re expected to make a speech that’s warm, witty, significant, meaningful, and funny – in front of all the people who really matter to you, your family, your new son-in-law, and (most importantly) your daughter, that’s a pretty big ask.

Finding father wedding speech, and bride and groom wedding speech ideas isn’t always simple or done, but I suggest sharing your ideas – while keeping the speeches private until the Big Day because it can be inspiring. Of course, checking some speech examples before you actually start, can really help your speech be as memorable and impressive as you want it to be!

Funny Father of The Bride Speech – Finding The Right Jokes

Posted on : 21-10-2009 | By : admin | In : Funny Father Speeches


One of the proprieties of a wedding speech is that sometimes they are funny. Of course, it doesn’t all need to be funny, but a funny wedding speech is a great crowd pleaser, and it will make you look good, as long as the jokes aren’t mean or offensive.

When I prepared my father of the bride speech, I wanted to be funny, of course, but at the same time respectful, because after my speech, the groom had his own speech,  so I wanted to introduce him in a warm manner, so he would be relaxed. (I have to say, that George, my son-in-low, was a little nervous about giving the groom wedding speech, so he needed a little encouragement) So keeping that in mind, I tried to be careful not to insult him, or his family in any way, but instead making him feel good about being the groom.

Good Humor and What is It’s Secret

When I used humor in my speech, I did it to keep the guests focused, and to make sure they kept listening properly. In any wedding toast, the groom and his bride should be the center of attention, and I tried to keep it that way, after all they were the main attraction.

So the best way of using this tactic from what I have learned, is to combine your regular speech with a few good jokes. To keep everyone relaxed, but focused, say emotional things, then add a little humor. It was my daughter’s wedding day, so of course I was a little emotional and nervous, but this really helped me as well as it did with the audience!

Another great father speech tip from my experience is to be informal and interact with the audience. Remember, this isn’t a lecture, It’s a toast! The father should feel like he is talking to old friends, which is largely the case, and be relaxed and friendly.

Any public speaker would tell you that making a good eye contact with your audience, and not fixing anyone will be a great way to keep the audience interest. What helped me to improve my speech before the big day, was to practice this technique with some of our friends.

These hints and tips about father wedding speeches will get you on the right foot, but for even a better idea, it’s a good thing if you try to use a few wedding speech examples.

Examples of Father Wedding Speeches

Posted on : 19-10-2009 | By : admin | In : Examples - Wedding Speeches


Father wedding speech examples can surely help you along with your own speech, as it did helped me. So make full use of this inspiring source, and take the preparing of your speech seriously, as it may happen only once or twice in your life. Make sure everything is perfectly set for your daughter’s big day, and prepare well.

Inspiring Examples and Being Unique

The good part with the father wedding speech examples is that you can shape them after your own wish, since there are empty blanks you can fill out with your own personal information to create a unique memorable speech for your daughter and the wedding guests.

So here are a few tips from an example setup, and a few things you should include into your speech:

»What to keep in mind before you start,
» People you will thank,
» Stories you can tell,
» Your feelings about your daughter big day,
» Father wedding speech jokes,
» Your daughter’s personality,
» Ways of getting the audience involved,
» How to keep it brief and from the heart.

The above are just a few elements I have found that a wedding speech should contain, and writing them down, made me more confident that I could deliver a great speech.

About Research

Another key point I have discovered during my research for a good father wedding speech, was how to stick to the point without boring the guests. Although the father of the bride speech is important, it shouldn’t be that long, even if you manage to make it interesting and to involve the audience. Remember, the groom will probably deliver a speech, so try not to overshadow him, because is his special day too, ok? Keeping that in mind, it helped me to keep my speech short.

If you would need some detailed father wedding speech examples to help you, then I recommend you start surfing the web, like I did. You should be able to find one that suits you, and the best examples will also give you tips and hints on how you can make the speech completely unique and memorable for all.

Father Wedding Toast – Keep it Breef

Posted on : 19-10-2009 | By : admin | In : Toasts


Of course, if you want to make a memorable speech, the end of it, which is the father wedding toast, should play an important part. So here are a few hints I can give you, starting with a couple of things you want to avoid when making the toast.

Start with the bride

As the title says, you want to keep the toast short, because this would be the end of your father of the bride speech, so  try not to bore the audience, but also don’t forget why and for who you’re holding the speech, which is of course your dear child.

You should consider speaking favorable about the groom and the new in laws, especially if you don’t know them very well, and although this might seem the right time to drop a joke, think twice about it, and play it safe, since you don’t want to offend anyone before ending your speech.

Enjoy yourself but be temperate

Of course, you will have a good time, since you are happy, and probably you will toast with alcohol. Be careful though, since having alcohol before the speech, can make someone say things they don’t mean to and spoil the moment. So try to keep that in mind, since alcohol can put anyone down, and ruin the moment your daughter values so much.

Some other tips

Under no circumstance speak of your ex-wife, or joke about an embarrassing situation in your daughter’s life, or make her feel uncomfortable on her special day. I know there is a lot of information on the internet right now, and you can find some useful tips and hints online, as I did, and if you would like to make a funny wedding speech that doesn’t offend anybody, you should consult some of this sources.

So as I stated at the beginning, try to make the toast as short and as concise as possible, because the last thing you want is to bore the audience. So try to chop the unnecessary parts out of the speech.